Öz
Bu çalışmada, flört ilişkisi olan ve evli bireylerin ilişki bağlanımlarını yordayan sosyal ağ değişkenleri hakkında bilgi edinilmesi amaçlanmıştır. Bu amaçla 134 flört ilişkisi olan ve 154 evli kişiye sosyal ağ analizi yapılarak araştırmacı tarafından geliştirilen öznel normlar ölçeği ve sosyal ağ özelikleri anketi ile ilişki istikrarı ölçeği uygulanmıştır. Sonuçlar en yakın hissedilen sosyal ağ üyesinin onayının ve partnerlerin birbirlerinin sosyal ağ üyelerinden hoşlanma düzeylerinin, ilişki doyumu ve ilişkiye yapılan yatırımın en iyi yordayıcıları olduğunu göstermiştir. Seçeneklerin niteliğini değerlendirme düzeyini ise sosyal ağ onayı negatif yönde yordamaktadır ve bu da sosyal ağların alternatif ilişkilere yönelmeye bir bariyer işlevi gördüğünü göstermektedir. Flört grubunda sosyal ağ onayı ilişki bağlanımını anlamlı olarak yordarken, evli grupta ise zaten onaylanmış bir ilişki olması nedeniyle sosyal onay ihtiyacının öneminin kalmadığı görülmektedir. En yakın hissedilen sosyal ağ üyesi ise cinsiyete göre değişmemiş ancak ilişki türüne göre farklılık göstermiştir. Flört grubunda kendi ve partnerlerinin sosyal ağından arkadaş en yakın hissedilen sosyal ağ üyesiyken, evli grupta kendi sosyal ağından annenin, partnerinin sosyal ağından kardeşin en yakın hissedilen sosyal ağ üyesi olduğu görülmüştür.
Abstract
The main objective of the study was to obtain information about social network variables in order to predict the relational commitment of married individuals and people having dating relationships. For this purpose, social network analysis has been carried out on 134 people having dating relationship and 154 married individuals and then Relationship Stability Scale, Subjective Norm Scale and Social Network Feature Survey prepared by the researcher were used. The results indicated that the approval of the closest social network member and the level of enjoyment of each other’s social network members had the best predictive value for relationship satisfaction and the investment to the relationship. The results also demonstrated that, approval of the social network had a negative impact on the level of the quality of alternatives and it showed that social networks were seen as a barrier function to have alternative relationships. Furthermore, by dividing social network members into two groups, for the dating group, the approval of the social network was the most significant variable for commitment but in the married group, the need for social network approval was not an important criteria because of having their relationship already confirmed legally. When social network members were categorised and examined, the closest social network members did not differ by sex, but were varied in terms of relationship types. In the flirt group, one of their friends among his/her social network and their partners’ social network was specified as the closest social network member whereas in the married group, the closest social network member among his/her social network was their mother while it was their sibling among partner’s social network.
Keywords: social approval, subjective norms, theory of planned behavior, commitment, investment model, the level of the quality of alternatives, relationship satisfaction, the investment to the relationship
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